Two distinct viewpoints quoted by a friend in Germany, and my resonse:
An article was written by Madhu Trehan. She writes regularly for "Outlook" and in this she is replying to a letter by a reader. Both the letters are given below.
Hi Madhu,
I have read your articles ever since I was a kid and you were at India Today. You have often come across as a balanced person not prone to Gandhi nonsense, until now. I live in a White Nation (the US) and have never felt like a second class citizen. Only a blind and a deaf person can compare the pride of a US citizen with the indignity of being an Indian. A US citizen trusts his government, knows his/her death will never go unpunished, while an Indian solider is there to die. Elite is a bad word in India because 95% of our country lives in abject poverty. Next time ask the waiter in Taj who served you the Rs 400 drink, how much he makes in a month. The Durban who opens the door for you, ask him how much he makes? I bet his monthly salary will be around your dinner bill. Shame on you and journalists like you who have failed India in the past with coloured reporting and are doing so now. They should feel ashamed. Rather than calling Bush names, maybe we should hang our heads in shame on PM's
like Vajpayee who is too old to walk, too much of a coward to protect his people. Maybe, just maybe, the day people like us (the English educated hence smarter) start feeling ashamed enough we will start making changes in India rather than just exploiting our servants and labour class. It anguishes me to read this national character articles. A nation that cannot feed its people (a la Orissa) has no character, a nation whose children move around naked (Mumbai) has no reason to feel proud, a nation whose elected reps call religious riots "opposite reaction" has no future. Once again, shame on you and all of India. I am ashamed to be an Indian and shame on you for suggesting anything else.
Chet (Chaitanya)
Madhu Trehan's response was:
Hello Chet,
I will answer your letter point by point. Your name. You can be Chet or Jet, stay away from the sun, fake an American accent, but you will never be able to run away from Chaitanya. He will always be there even though you hate him today. Gandhi, whom you hold in such contempt, despite all his controversial behaviour, is largely responsible for the fact that there is no white boot on a part of your anatomy today. You live in a white nation but you are not white and never will be. You can fool yourself to believe that you are not treated as a second class citizen. You choose to forget the Dot Busters, the Sikh who was killed because he looked foreign, and rampant racism. How many times a week do you have to explain where you are from and spend your time EXPLAINING India to Americans? I cringe to think what you say to them about India. We do not need spokesman such as you. You will never be able to share a good desi joke with any of your new friends. If you can't laugh together; you cannot understand each other. You will always be an alien. Yes, we are economically poor compared to US but we do not have to suffer the highest rate of teenage pregnancies, kids coming into schools and killing students and teachers, the highest rate of suicide among college students, alienated parents and children, lonely old people dumped into old age homes, drugs being offered to eight year olds (as my daughter was when she was in the UN school in New York), serial marriages and divorces.
The US had a president who was senile and deaf (Reagan),one who turned out to be a serial sex offender (Clinton), and now you have one who didn't know the heads of state of major countries and ignored warnings of a terrorist attack months before it took place. The US is responsible for massacres in Vietnam, Cambodia, Iraq, Chile
and the list goes on. The rest of the world does not view America with the rose-coloured glasses you have been brainwashed by the US media to see through. And, how much does a waiter in Jean Georges restaurant in Trump International Hotel in New York make compared to the price of the drink he is serving? The labour class is exploited all over the world. You seem to very upset that I am pointing out we have a national character to be ashamed of and we should do something about it. Your insistence that we stay ashamed and do nothing about it is perhaps to make it easier for you to live in a country where the only religion is to hang out at malls and accumulate consumer items you don't really need but have been dictated by advertising to buy to keep the US economy going. It is not by accident that Americans are flocking to yoga and meditation classes to buy happiness. You have done well to leave a country you are ashamed of. Call yourself an American but sooner or later your disguise and American Halloween costume will frighten you enough to get rid of it. I love America's energy and have good friends there. New York is a centre for an enormous outpouring of creativity and imaginative thinking. Every country has its own problems. It is for the people who belong there to take responsibility for change. If you are so far removed from India, ask yourself why you are so anguished with my article. Chaitanya is raising his head, Chet is in trouble.
Regards,
Madhu Trehan
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My response to the friend in Germany:
Thank you for sharing the two (undated) points of view. Here is my two bits worth:
I cannot help but feel that the two articulate, impassioned writers have a huge chip on their shoulder, which is not uncommon among many of the Indian (and not necessarily Indian) Diaspora, who happen to carry the garbage of history and its attendant biases and prejudices, wherever they go.
There was similar walloping of India and the USA in the books of Katherine Mayo (Mother India 1929) and K. L. Gauba (Uncle Sham 1932) with the probable difference that neither of them had ever made a home in each other's country, and only one of them was Indian, unlike Chet and Madhu.
Apparently little has changed in all these years; the prejudices remain. Why? Because with all the advancement in education, cross cultures and globalisation since those days, we have still refused to learn how to transcend our cultures and shed the need of constant comparisons: to defend or attack to make ourselves look good at all times. But, transcendence is an individual process, and it simply cannot be achieved as a mass movement despite the good attempts of swamis and yogis. Sadly, the importance and science of it is not taught in schools or colleges of the world. And, even when it occurs to one at a later age, it is not pursued with conviction by most. So, we remain in the world of Mayos and Gaubas, and Chets and Madhus: a thoughtful world; an articulate, debating world with cogent arguments, but of camp dwellers, ever shifting from or remaining in one camp or another, never rising above all camps and seeing much wider horizons.
Transcendence is like stepping into another dimension with the assistance of ones mind freed and uncluttered by the colours, tools and sciences of all the prevelant times, without the need of justifying ones being.
-- Ronnie
From the desk of Ronnie Patel in the Philippines
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